Correct. The issue starts when people start policing your "respect levels".
I didn't get the chance to buy one this year, perhaps i could've done more to remedy that but I still stopped in the shop I was in at 11am this morning and actually used it to think about the people that died.
The 11th November is also my birthday, so my Mum has constantly seen the Poppy as important to her. I'll not share a picture of the Happy 21st card I got from her which was the number made out of poppies.